Traveling solo can seem a bit daunting or lonely, but it does not have to be! Making friends when traveling solo just requires a little bit of effort – and sometimes a willingness to try something new. It serves even the most introverted person well to get out of the box once in a while. Take your trip and dare yourself to make a new friend!
Here are a four tips to help:
#1: Start a conversation on transit
At Starr, many of our trips require a bit of time before reaching your destination. Instead of plugging in headphones or turning to the next chapter in your book, why not start up a conversation with your fellow travelers? You already have your destination in common. With that knowledge, you can simply ask what they are looking forward to seeing on the trip, have they visited before, etc. Make the most of the drive by socializing.
#2: Make small talk over meals
Dining with others is always an easy entry to making small talk. A few simple conversation starters are: Where are you from? Is this your first trip with Starr? What has been your favorite part of the trip so far? Open-ended questions are always best because they leave room for the conversation to grow.
#3: What NOT to do
Don’t expect everyone to have everything in common with you. It’s a GOOD thing to meet new people who are passionate about different things. Be open to people with diverse backgrounds and interests, varying ages and life experiences. This gives you the opportunity to learn from each other and you might find out you have more in common than you think. Don’t be discouraged to make a new friend or let your fears hold you back. Many times, we can “clam up” if the conversation goes dry. If that happens, just ask another question! Don’t ask personal questions too quickly or act nosy. This can deter people away.
#4: Forget Your Hang-Ups
This might be the most important tip. If you’re anything like me, you might make excuses for meeting people or trying something new. You might say you’re too old, too young, too scared; the list goes on. Leave the excuses at home and meet someone new.
#4 Staying in touch
After returning from your trip with new friends, find a way to keep in touch. It may be a little awkward to say, “Hey, I really enjoyed spending time with you on this trip. Would you like to exchange numbers and meet for lunch sometime?” but put yourself out there. The worst they can do is say no. Exchange numbers and other contact info – connect over social media. Find a fun class to take together or, better yet, plan to get together again on another Starr trip! A friend you meet traveling can easily turn into a friend for life!
When traveling solo, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to put your fears aside and enjoy the adventure. Strike up a conversation while standing in line or step out of your comfort zone to try a new class. There’s no need to stick to the norm, especially when it comes to meeting new people. Traveling solo is all what you make of it. Make your trip a great one and make a new friend!
Many of the trips we offer at Starr include free time to explore an area “on own.” Your free time on own might include seeing the sites, local attractions, or tasting the best of the local faire. However you choose to spend it, here are some great ways to research the best of the best in the area.
TripAdvisor TripAdvisor is a travel website boasting reviews of the best and the worst. If you go to their website, you can type in your destination and what you’re searching for, such as “Boston restaurants” or “Cape Cod attractions” for example. The website then lists the top go-to places in the area by rank. The information and reviews are always current, so this is one website that we highly recommend!
Local Convention and Visitors Bureaus (CVBs)
Local CVBs are known for their tourism marketing. They always have an abundance of brochures and can recommend the best and most popular places in town. It helps that they are knowledgeable of every area of town too, so they can easily locate attractions nearby where you will be. You can either visit the bureaus in person, or simply do a Google search for the town website and contact them.
Google
In any case, there’s always good ole Google! You can simply go to www.google.com and type in your destination, like “Cape Cod,” and an array of websites will appear that can give you tourism information for your specific location. If you want to get a little more specific, you can type in “Cape Cod restaurants” or “best Cape Cod restaurants.” Many times, bloggers have already written about your chosen destination with helpful pointers on the go-to places in the area.
Smartphones
If you own a smartphone, then it probably comes equipped with the handy little “map” app. What’s neat about this is that you can actually search for restaurants, bars, shopping, fun, and so on, all in this little app. It can give you the reviews and distance from your location, too! So if you’re just at a loss for how to spend your free time, search on your map app for what’s nearby!
Yelp
Similar to TripAdvisor, Yelp is another great travel website. It lists reviews for local areas and allows you to search for specific places. If you’re in the mood for Mexican, you can input your destination and “Mexican” to see what restaurants are highly rated.
Groupon
Once you have figured out how you’d like to spend your free time, then you can look into discounts. Groupon is an awesome website that lists deals that you can snag for dining and activities. It is also available as an app for your smartphone.
We love offering free time during travel because it allows you the freedom to customize your trip exactly how you’d like it. These websites and apps are great ways to research and plan the perfect getaway for you!
People often think that good photography is all about the gear – having the latest cameras and lenses that will guarantee that perfect shot. With the advent of hi tech smartphones however, the perfect shot is just within reach of your smartphone’s camera. In fact, my iPhone has the same image resolution as the professional camera I bought a few years ago! Great photography isn’t about the gear, it is about the photographer behind the gear. You can learn to take great shots with your smartphone by following just a few simple rules.
Please note: These tips are intended for smartphone users. They cover the basics and use the iPhone as a primary example, but should be general enough to be relatable to any smartphone user. space here
1. Keep Your Lens Clean Sometimes the secret to having a sharp (in focus) photo is as simple as wiping your lens before you take the picture. Unlike your regular cameras, your smartphone’s lens isn’t covered by a lens cap or built in mechanism that retracts it every time you shut the camera off. Your phone sees some pretty dirty places. Your purse and pocket are full of lint and debris and I can guarantee that at least half the time you take your phone out, you are unconsciously touching the lens. Even if your hands are clean, the natural oils in your skin can build up over time. All of this muck can result in dark, hazy images. Luckily, your smartphone’s lens is built tough and can handle the abuse. A simple swipe of a soft cloth (your shirt will do in a pinch, but try not to make a habit of it) and you’re good to go! Bonus Tip: Being aware of where your lenses are will help you keep your fingers from photo-bombing your shots! There are two lenses on smartphones these days – a rear facing lens located on the back of your phone, and a front facing lens located on the front of your phone. The front facing lens is used primarily for FaceTime and video chats and has a lower resolution than your rear facing lens. The rear facing lens is the one you want to use for taking photographs, even selfies, because it will have the highest resolution. I know it is difficult to take a selfie without being able to see the preview screen, but practice and get used to it. See my bonus tip at the end of the article for more selfie tips.
2. Use the Highest Resolution Possible It can be really tempting to tap down on your camera’s resolution settings (not available on all smartphones) to save space on a phone with an already limited storage capacity, but try to avoid doing this. With a higher resolution, your photos will be sharper and better for sharing and printing. This is most important, and often an available option, on camera phone’s that have a lower megapixel count. (To find out your camera phone’s megapixels try googling ” how many megapixels is the (specific make and model of your phone, ex. iPhone 6).” Note: If printing your photos is unlikely and you just want to share them digitally, you can drop the resolution down a little to save space.
3. Take the Time To Learn About Your Phone’s Peculiarities With so many features being built in to smartphones these days it can be hard to keep up. From auto-focus to exposure adjustment, smile detection to HDR, there are so many small tools built in to each model that, when used properly, can take a mediocre photo from drab to fantastic. There are many videos available online to make learning about your phone easy. Try typing “(specific make and model of your phone) camera tips” and click on the video search tool in the top bar.
4. Practice Tapping Your Screen/Shutter Button and Learn Your Phone’s Other Shutter Controls
Your phone is a pretty sophisticated camera, but it isn’t perfect. Many smartphones have a brief “shutter lag” – the lag time between the moment you tap the shutter and the actual photo being captured. In most cases this is just a matter of a second or less, but a second can be just long enough to cause motion blur. This is why it is important to hold still a little longer than you normally would. Also, remember that it is a touch screen – the amount of pressure applied does not matter in most cases. Use a light touch that won’t jolt your phone and pause for just a half-second before moving the camera. Many cameras also come with the option of using the volume buttons as a shutter button. Sometimes these can be easier to use because they are closer to the shutter button feel of a hand held camera. If you have built-in volume controls on your headphones they can also be used as a remote shutter button.
5. Use Your Phone’s Auto Focus
You know that little box that pops up on your screen when you’re in camera mode? There are a lot of handy features contained in that little square. Tap anywhere on the screen to get the box to focus on that section. This little box also controls your exposure in most cases. When you tap on a specific part of an image (before taking the picture) your camera will focus on that image and measure the amount of light in that area so that it can adjust the exposure for the entire image accordingly. This is why you will often get a blown out sky or a really dark foreground when trying to take a picture of a sunset, for example. Whenever you are trying to take a picture of a scene with bright highlights and darker shadows, try tapping on a portion of your image that is more of a midpoint between the shadows and the highlights for a better exposure overall. If you want to get creative or, for example, if the sunset sky in your image is more important than anything in the shadows, tap on the sky and let everything else fall away. To get a little more advanced, some phones have a feature where you can tap to control the area of focus and then slide your finger up or down to control the overall exposure. You’ll often be able to tell if your phone has this feature by whether or not a small sun icon appears next to the box (smartphones may vary, consult your phone’s manual for more information).
6. Keep Still and Avoid Using Your Camera’s Flash The steadier your camera phone is when you take your picture, the clearer your image will be. This is a bit of a repeat of my last tip. Don’t rush through your photograph. Use a steady hand and a light touch, and pause for half a second before moving your phone. I am repeating this tip because it is especially important in low light situations. You want to avoid using your camera’s flash as much as possible. I know, this tip is going to be hard to accept, but trust me on this one, your pictures will come out better if you can find a way to brace your phone against a wall or another solid object and allow the camera to use a longer exposure. Your smartphone’s flash is really just a glorified LED flashlight. (Have you ever noticed that the flashlight function just makes your “camera flash” come on and stay on?) It’s garishly bright, and does not function like a normal flash. On a regular camera, the flash freezes the action like a strobe light. On your smartphone, the flash stays on too long and results in images that are blurry and terribly-lit. Instead, find a way to keep your smartphone as stable and still as possible when it takes the picture, or seek out more creative light sources in dimly lit areas.
There are always exceptions to the rules. Sometimes capturing the memory of the moment is more important, in that case, fire away with your flashy self. Bonus Tip: If available, experiment with your smartphone camera’s HDR function. When this is turned on, your camera will take a little longer to snap the picture (hold still!) because it will take several shots at different exposures and then stitch them together to get a more properly exposed image overall. This is a great occasional tool, but not necessary or ideal all the time.
7. Crop Don’t Zoom Even if your smartphone offers a digital zoom function, you’re usually better off not using it. When you zoom in on an image your camera basically takes a guess at what the image looks like by enlarging the pixels. The result is grainy, soft focus images that roughly resemble what you were trying to capture. With most smartphones having 8 megapixel cameras or better, you can crop your image later and still have it look web-ready. (Note: this tip isn’t as important if you have a newer smartphone with an optical zoom, rather than a digital zoom.)
8. Pay Attention to Your Background and Surroundings
Take a moment to glance away from your subjects and pay attention to what is behind them. Is the waterfall/building/landscape you’re trying to show well positioned behind them? This is one of those times where the trick of focusing on a midpoint can come in handy for both focus and proper overall exposure. Now, look at your subjects again, do any of them have a tree or a pole or some other strange object coming out of their head? This may not seem like an important detail, but your pictures improve significantly when you avoid distracting elements. Remember what I said in the beginning, a good photograph isn’t about the tool, it is about the person taking the picture. If you follow the basic rules of photography, your images are guaranteed to come out better. For a good overview of important things to keep in mind for better shots, check out this website.
9. Light Your Subject Well
Bright sunlight can be great to avoid dark and underexposed shots, but they can be terrible for squinting, and blinking, or dark subjects in front of a bright background. Try to avoid having your subjects backlit or facing into the direct sunlight. On bright sunny days, put your subjects in the brightest patch of shade possible, and choose the second brightest portion of the image for your exposure. Cloudy days are often a photographer’s best friend. Clouds diffuse the light making proper exposure much easier. Bonus Tip: One to two hours after sunrise and one to two hours before sunset are referred to as the “Golden Hour” or “Magic Hours” in photography. This is the beautiful light that is the setting for many fairy-tales – the sky is colorful and there is a perfect balance of light to capture land and sky with a decent exposure.
10. Have Fun One of the great things about digital photography is that you can shoot as much as you want! Long gone are the days of carefully selecting those perfect shots because you only get 24 frames on a roll of film. Enjoy this lifting of limitations and have fun shooting as much as you want. Experiment with different lighting. Explore creative angles for your shot – what happens if you take the photo from a lower viewpoint than normal, or if you lift your smartphone up for a higher viewpoint? Experiment with panoramas. Go in for a close-up. Try new poses. The enjoyment you put into taking the picture will show in your photograph. Be kind to yourself and don’t take it too seriously. Bonus Tip: For the perfect selfie, use the rear facing lens and hold your smartphone slightly higher than directly in front of you and tilt your head up just a little to look into the lens. Squeeze the volume button to take the shot. Let go of the ease of the front facing camera. Practice makes perfect when it comes to fitting everyone in the frame and you’ll appreciate the higher resolution. Hold your smartphone out and take several photographs, moving your hand just an inch down, then to the right, to the left, up, angled this way, and then that. One of those photos will come out a winner, and you’ll get a better idea of what works through the experiment. For added ease, try using the headphone trick I talked about earlier.
One of the comments that we often hear from passengers traveling alone on our tours is that they love to travel with us because they meet so many great people! In fact, we know of many different Starr travelers that met on tour years ago and continue to travel together to this day. While traveling by yourself may seem daunting at first, there are many perks to solo travel like the opportunity to meet and travel with great people, but still have a room all to yourself at the end of a long, exciting day.
Our Tour Directors and Drivers are dedicated to caring for the safety and well-being of our passengers. After all, safety is our top priority! That means that you’re in good hands with our safe and reliable staff, but we want to make sure that you are safe when you’re out exploring on your own too. As you know, in this day and age, anything can happen during travel (or at home!) so it is always best to be prepared!
Before you leave the hotel for an adventure out on the town, grab the hotel’s business card and tuck that in your wallet. This way, you’ll have the hotel’s contact information handy and, just in case something happens, emergency personnel will have another point of contact in order to help you. Make sure you ask your Tour Director and/or Driver for their cell phone number. This way you can reach them in case you can’t meet up at your scheduled time.
Consider purchasing accessories to hide your valuables and never take large amounts of cash out in open view of others. Split your cash and credit cards between your various pieces of luggage so that if your wallet is stolen you still have a backup. Some accessories that we recommend are an under-clothes money belt in place of a wallet (a simple one like this will do) and a wearable USB with copies of your all of your important documents like your passport (if traveling abroad) and photo ID.
If you have a smartphone, there are some great safety apps to download. “Watch Over Me” is really great one! Once you enter the app, you simply type in, “Watch over me while I…” and finish your sentence with anything like, “travel today,” and enter the time frame. The app then begins a countdown until you reach the end of your designated time frame. At that point, you let the app know that you are safe. If you do not confirm your safety by the time the counter hits zero then the app will contact your previously assigned “emergency contacts” with your GPS location. Isn’t it amazing what technology can do? Other apps to look into are “React Mobile,” and “Get Home Safe”. Apps vary on the features they include and price, so try googling “personal safety app” or “personal safety app reviews” to learn more and find one that is right for you. Also, make sure your phone is charged and carry your charger with you. There are small portable chargers that you can purchase as well to keep your phone, tablet, and everything else ready to go.
When it comes to cell phones, it’s also smart to keep in mind that some areas of travel may not have service. It’s best to check your roaming capabilities before you go (especially when traveling abroad) and, if necessary, plan to purchase a prepaid phone when you reach your destination. Another great idea is to give your itinerary to a friend or family member before you leave and check in throughout your trip. Staying connected is key!
Wherever you are, as cliché as it may seem, be aware of your surroundings. Do not let yourself be easily distracted by beggars or children (especially overseas) as some can be very crafty. Distractions can be used to deflect your attention from what is really happening.
Though the likelihood of an unsafe experience is rare, staying smart and vigilant is key to a wonderful experience. The more you know, the more prepared you can be for your trip of a lifetime with Starr!
For more safety tips, check out the websites below.
There’s a reason why National Geographic listed Rehoboth Beach among its Top 10 U.S. Boardwalks. The mile-long boardwalk is a great place to view the broad expanse of beautiful beach stretched out for your enjoyment. Whether you decide to spend the day walking the boardwalk, basking in the sunny rays on the shoreline, or dining at some of the area’s most unique restaurants (or all of the above!) we’re sure you’ll agree that Rehoboth Beach is a fantastic destination! It’s sure to be a memorable day for everyone and we’d love to give you some tips for your trip.
When packing for any day trip to the beach, always be sure to bring along plenty of sunscreen, water to keep hydrated. A book or magazine, a towel, and change of clothes are must haves if you plan on taking a dip in the ocean or plan to lounge in the sand. Sunglasses are always a great accessory to pack, but if you forget yours then snag some new ones at one of the many shops. Pack a small grocery bag to use for trash, and a ziplock baggie or two for seashells and other fun finds. Some other handy items: antibacterial wipes, band aids and antiseptic, insulated cooler bag, and snacks. If you’re worried about your valuables, try hiding them in an empty Pringles can, chapstick, deodorant, or sunscreen container, or even a rolled up diaper (this last one is almost guaranteed not to be messed with, just make sure no one accidentally throws it out for you!). Also, consider bringing a travel size bottle of baby powder and baby wipes (you’ll see why in the next paragraph!). Things not to bring: glass bottles, and alcohol as these items are prohibited on the beach.
Keep in mind that if you plan to change clothes while at Rehoboth Beach, public restrooms are available, but shower facilities are not. Here’s where the baby powder comes in! Did you know that baby powder can help remove that pesky sand from your body? To make it work, make sure your limbs are mostly dry before application, otherwise you’ll end up with a white sloppy mess. Once you’ve toweled off or air dried, sprinkle the baby powder on your hands and feet and gently rub. The sand should come right off. Follow up with a quick swipe of a baby wipe to remove excess powder and you’re good to go!
When the “hunger bug” strikes, there are a variety of options for dining. If you’re in the mood for Mexican, Mariachi Restaurant has rave reviews and is only half a block from the boardwalk. Mariachi boasts of all the standard Mexican goodies while tossing in a few specials – which, according to reviews, are always winners!
If you’re looking for something a little more upscale, 99 Sea Level in the Marriott Bethany Beach Ocean Suites is on the boardwalk and offers raw bar and seafood. The venue opened nearly one year ago on July 23, 2015 but has already established an outstanding reputation with its fabulous food and views from the attractive glassed building.
Once you’re fueled up and ready to go, be sure to stop by the many great shops the boardwalk has to offer including Dolles Candyland, a Rehoboth staple since 1926! Then, stroll down Rehoboth Ave. to browse a variety of unique shops like the Spice & Tea Exchange, Browseabout Books, Sea Finds, and more!